The following is based solely on my personal opinion and personal experience within the lesbian community…
If you’re a lesbian and dating, you may be familiar with the passive lesbian.
She’s not that into you, if:
- You’ve been talking on social media/dating website for one week and haven’t met in-person
- She won’t give you a straight answer about meeting you in-person
- She doesn’t respond to your messages. Tip: Give up after 24 hours.
- She doesn’t kiss you after the 2nd date
- 48 hours have passed since you first met and you haven’t heard from her
- She doesn’t want to hold hands after the 5th date
- She doesn’t text you “good morning” and/or “goodnight”
- You are always first to initiate a conversation
- You haven’t met her friends after the 3rd date
- She always wants to meet you at a bar